Plucking a daisy is not the best way to know if a person really loves you. Only the actual behavior of our beloved holds the key.
As much as it has been used in film, plucking a daisy is not the best way to know if a person really loves you. Neither is trying to glimpse his feelings, requiring an interpretation in which it is very easy to get wrong. Even if you ask your boyfriend does he love you? the answer will be "yes".
According to psychologist, one of the most famous couples therapists says that only the behavior of our beloved can offer us a real taste of what they are feeling for us. When we are in love it is easy for misunderstandings: words are never as accurate they should, and so for a party is a compliment to the other can be a grievance. So the only thing we can trust is what really makes our partner, the actions of everyday life, we must scrutinize it purely with an objective and a criteria.
Beautiful words are not enough. What matters are the facts. And while all couples breached occasionally some of the points, if you see that your beloved fails in most, or think you are that you fail continuously, you should start thinking that something is wrong in your relationship.
1. He wants to spend time with you
When we love someone we want to spend time with them. This does not mean you need to be all the time with your partner, but make an effort to spend time alone, irrespective of the work, family and other commitments. If your partner really makes sacrifices to spend more time with you which means he wants you.
According to the new theory of marriage, the more time a couple spends together is the best indicator of the healthy relationship.
As much as it has been used in film, plucking a daisy is not the best way to know if a person really loves you. Neither is trying to glimpse his feelings, requiring an interpretation in which it is very easy to get wrong. Even if you ask your boyfriend does he love you? the answer will be "yes".
According to psychologist, one of the most famous couples therapists says that only the behavior of our beloved can offer us a real taste of what they are feeling for us. When we are in love it is easy for misunderstandings: words are never as accurate they should, and so for a party is a compliment to the other can be a grievance. So the only thing we can trust is what really makes our partner, the actions of everyday life, we must scrutinize it purely with an objective and a criteria.
Beautiful words are not enough. What matters are the facts. And while all couples breached occasionally some of the points, if you see that your beloved fails in most, or think you are that you fail continuously, you should start thinking that something is wrong in your relationship.
1. He wants to spend time with you
When we love someone we want to spend time with them. This does not mean you need to be all the time with your partner, but make an effort to spend time alone, irrespective of the work, family and other commitments. If your partner really makes sacrifices to spend more time with you which means he wants you.
According to the new theory of marriage, the more time a couple spends together is the best indicator of the healthy relationship.
2. He asks - how was your day?
It seems obvious, but not all people care about the daily lives of their partners. Details may not interest you too much that the person will tell you about their job but if he really loves you, he will be interested to listen to you. Love is not built into the ethereal, but practical: your partner should worry about the daily problems and help overcome them. If he passes them probably he does not want it.
Communication is key to the health of a couple.
3. Trust yourself
Without trust it is impossible that a relationship is maintained over time. If someone really loves you, they will always give the benefit of the doubt and not walk doubting your honesty. Usually all situations of jealousy or suspicion that the other person is not being entirely honest, arise by small misunderstandings that have not been tackled in time. Sooner or later all couples experience problems of this type. The couples that last over time are those who know how to address mistrust which appear, raising the situation openly from the grass root level. A greater distrust, less the love is.
The lack of trust is one of the best indications that something is wrong with a couple.
4. It helps when you need it
Never mind that your partner tell you how much he loves you all the time, but if he is not able to help you when you need it. Our day to day affection has great rewards, the effort you make for your partner to help is much larger than the great gift you made for her birthday which demonstrated love.
5. Respect your opinions
Although the common interests are important to the health of a couple, it is not necessary that lovers share the same political views or the same musical tastes. What is necessary is to respect and value each other's opinion. Treating your partner's opinion without respect, or be little their point of view on something, is not the best example of love that we can offer.
The stability of couples and success of relationships generally reside on reciprocity of positive attitudes among both.
5. Respect your opinions
Although the common interests are important to the health of a couple, it is not necessary that lovers share the same political views or the same musical tastes. What is necessary is to respect and value each other's opinion. Treating your partner's opinion without respect, or be little their point of view on something, is not the best example of love that we can offer.
The stability of couples and success of relationships generally reside on reciprocity of positive attitudes among both.
6. We include in their decisions
In a loving relationship is important that each party retains some independence, but there are certain decisions that should not take without consulting your partner. At the end of the day, especially if the couple lives under the same roof, any individual decision will affect both people: however much you think otherwise, how you employ your time and money will have consequences for the relationship. Someone who loves you will consult you the important decisions, at least try to know your opinion.
Surprising as it may seem, the financial discussions cause more marital infidelity than children, housework sexual conflicts or other problems.
7. Is physical affection
Not all couples need the same sexual frequency to run, but all need some physical contact. Love must be demonstrated daily with small gestures. If your partner does not show any sign of affection, he may have stopped loving you.
Physical contact with our loving also pushes us to be more faithful, through the work of Oxycontin.
8. You look
The nonverbal language that your partner shares with you is essential to understand their deepest feelings. Some people have difficulty showing his affection verbally, but sometimes a look is much more expressive. The lovers also are able to maintain visual contact would be too violent among people with less confidence.
A look can even arouse sexual desire.
9. He likes to talk of the past
Long-distance couples who enjoy remembering times past, proud of what they lived, maintain their bond in good condition at present. If your partner fondly recalls last moments of the relationship (although you had perhaps overlooked) is that they're still important to him and he still really loves you.
Open communication is essential for a couple to work.
10. You defend
Does your partner defends you when someone criticizes or does he join the attacker? It is very common in couples who attend parties make fun of the defects of his companion, something that is particularly worrying if done in groups and in the presence of the beloved. And it is a clear sign that things are not going well. Someone who is still in love will defend as far as possible to their beloved.
Before making a negative comment about your partner ask yourself if necessary.
11. Makes you feel good
Love is based on the behavior of our partner but unrequited love can feel in our own flesh. If a person really wants, he will succeed in improving our self-esteem and make us feel good. This does not mean that our partner will make a horrible day at work into a wonderful day, but you may be able to feel a bit better.
In a loving relationship is important that each party retains some independence, but there are certain decisions that should not take without consulting your partner. At the end of the day, especially if the couple lives under the same roof, any individual decision will affect both people: however much you think otherwise, how you employ your time and money will have consequences for the relationship. Someone who loves you will consult you the important decisions, at least try to know your opinion.
Surprising as it may seem, the financial discussions cause more marital infidelity than children, housework sexual conflicts or other problems.
7. Is physical affection
Not all couples need the same sexual frequency to run, but all need some physical contact. Love must be demonstrated daily with small gestures. If your partner does not show any sign of affection, he may have stopped loving you.
Physical contact with our loving also pushes us to be more faithful, through the work of Oxycontin.
8. You look
The nonverbal language that your partner shares with you is essential to understand their deepest feelings. Some people have difficulty showing his affection verbally, but sometimes a look is much more expressive. The lovers also are able to maintain visual contact would be too violent among people with less confidence.
A look can even arouse sexual desire.
9. He likes to talk of the past
Long-distance couples who enjoy remembering times past, proud of what they lived, maintain their bond in good condition at present. If your partner fondly recalls last moments of the relationship (although you had perhaps overlooked) is that they're still important to him and he still really loves you.
Open communication is essential for a couple to work.
10. You defend
Does your partner defends you when someone criticizes or does he join the attacker? It is very common in couples who attend parties make fun of the defects of his companion, something that is particularly worrying if done in groups and in the presence of the beloved. And it is a clear sign that things are not going well. Someone who is still in love will defend as far as possible to their beloved.
Before making a negative comment about your partner ask yourself if necessary.
11. Makes you feel good
Love is based on the behavior of our partner but unrequited love can feel in our own flesh. If a person really wants, he will succeed in improving our self-esteem and make us feel good. This does not mean that our partner will make a horrible day at work into a wonderful day, but you may be able to feel a bit better.