One of the worst things you can have in the street, in a
bar, a party or a bowling is certainly bumping into your ex. The feelings you
get and you never tend to behave normally. For those times, we suggest that you
follow the tips that we present below, you'll see that this is much easier and
will help you to exit gracefully.
What to do if you run into your ex?
In principle, you are distracted, you do not see it quicken the pace or across the street are bad ideas. Surely, as you saw it, he also identified you in the crowd but there is no face contact so follow these simple tips.
In principle, you are distracted, you do not see it quicken the pace or across the street are bad ideas. Surely, as you saw it, he also identified you in the crowd but there is no face contact so follow these simple tips.
Keep it brief
Do not let the conversation become extensive, nor go into detail about what is currently happening in your life (let it aside even if he asks about it). With kind regards educated him that you have no hard feelings. Be warm and smiling, but do not devote more time than necessary. Also, it is your ex and not a friend who does not see much, so try to "catch up" is totally out of place.
Do not let the conversation become extensive, nor go into detail about what is currently happening in your life (let it aside even if he asks about it). With kind regards educated him that you have no hard feelings. Be warm and smiling, but do not devote more time than necessary. Also, it is your ex and not a friend who does not see much, so try to "catch up" is totally out of place.
Do not jump to
conclusions
Never run all day or the rest of the night thinking about what he said and if behind his words are no hidden meanings. The former can make some comments only to disturb or fretting, so do not give it much thought to the matter. Trying to decipher his sentences only will ruin the moment and it will confuse you.
Keep trustNever run all day or the rest of the night thinking about what he said and if behind his words are no hidden meanings. The former can make some comments only to disturb or fretting, so do not give it much thought to the matter. Trying to decipher his sentences only will ruin the moment and it will confuse you.
Always be happy and confident when talking to him. Never let him think you're unhappy, you miss him or that your life is not good without him. Instead, you must make note that you have moved on, you live your days to the fullest and you do not need him at all. Maybe you're dating someone else or not, what matters is that you both know what did not work and it's just a past memory that does not affect your present.
Do not seek to
discuss
Never use these meetings to get things on face or generate discussion. The time is past reproach things, and if you act now he will think that you have not forgotten or moved on. Also, if you behave in this way it shows you are psychotic which still affect you with things of the past. You should never give make him feel superior.
Never use these meetings to get things on face or generate discussion. The time is past reproach things, and if you act now he will think that you have not forgotten or moved on. Also, if you behave in this way it shows you are psychotic which still affect you with things of the past. You should never give make him feel superior.
I'm great!
This should be the immediate response if he asks you how you are. Not a chance. Just say you're amazing and everything is going great in your life. Getting to confess your pains and sorrows will only make you look like a lonely girl who needs her ex back. And what if that answer is not entirely true? Well think happy thoughts and practice your best smile of actress, that way you will be more credible.
This should be the immediate response if he asks you how you are. Not a chance. Just say you're amazing and everything is going great in your life. Getting to confess your pains and sorrows will only make you look like a lonely girl who needs her ex back. And what if that answer is not entirely true? Well think happy thoughts and practice your best smile of actress, that way you will be more credible.
Do not apologize
As these meetings are not the time to argue, neither are to apologize. Wanting to apologize for something or trying to do will just cause you more pain, and will show that you are needy and vulnerable. In addition, he can interpret it as you are trying to reopen a closed door and want to be back in a relationship with him. This is only allowed if you have done something seriously wrong in the past and need to express your repentance.
As these meetings are not the time to argue, neither are to apologize. Wanting to apologize for something or trying to do will just cause you more pain, and will show that you are needy and vulnerable. In addition, he can interpret it as you are trying to reopen a closed door and want to be back in a relationship with him. This is only allowed if you have done something seriously wrong in the past and need to express your repentance.
Do not try again
If you bump into your ex at all you can feel is love, do not try to take the first step to reconcile at that time. Do not try to rekindle the romance so suddenly which will alienate you further. In these circumstances it is best to be friendly, speak briefly and mention that you do not want to lose touch. Then in subsequent talks, you can go trying to turn back the flame of love in his heart.
Tip: Forbidden mourn or show distressed and desperate to get back to him. The process must be done with tact and calm if you do not want frighten or else he might think you're crazy.
If you bump into your ex at all you can feel is love, do not try to take the first step to reconcile at that time. Do not try to rekindle the romance so suddenly which will alienate you further. In these circumstances it is best to be friendly, speak briefly and mention that you do not want to lose touch. Then in subsequent talks, you can go trying to turn back the flame of love in his heart.
Tip: Forbidden mourn or show distressed and desperate to get back to him. The process must be done with tact and calm if you do not want frighten or else he might think you're crazy.
Do not turn
After saying goodbye, do not turn your head to look like away. If you do and he also may believe there is room for a reunion (which may be yes or no). But if you do it and he did not, they become bitter feelings and sadness. The same applies if you are at a party or a nightclub, do not be all the time trying to locate him or know where he is. If you are truly interested in returning, follow the advice we gave you before and avoids being desperate for attention.
After saying goodbye, do not turn your head to look like away. If you do and he also may believe there is room for a reunion (which may be yes or no). But if you do it and he did not, they become bitter feelings and sadness. The same applies if you are at a party or a nightclub, do not be all the time trying to locate him or know where he is. If you are truly interested in returning, follow the advice we gave you before and avoids being desperate for attention.