There could be a million reasons why you were alone for long - something not to find the right person to have had a very bad experience with the bad. Or simply do not want to be in a relationship. But what happens when you finally decide to leave the single life behind and give another chance to go out with someone? Well, here's the answer from someone who was exactly at this place!
1. It is not easy!
They will tell you that the relationship should not be hard work, but it is not true. You will have to constantly make adjustments to their way of working because you were so used to being alone and you're nothing. What is not child's play. But you just need to make some changes in your priorities and you will be fine!
2. Trust does not come in a day
You know the guy, of course, and it seems like a great person! He said all the right things and your friends will love it too. But that does not mean that you take at face value. You want things to go slowly and take time ... Because it has lived up to what he says is the only thing that will make you trust him!
3. Tons of confusion each time
You do not remember how couples do things! Ok, it's not your fault. You can take a while to get the hang of things, because it is different for each relationship and each couple, but it will eventually push through the confusion and get to the point where you get right!
4. very long phone conversations / text!
This need not be true for everyone, but most of the time, a boyfriend increases the amount of time your phone by a huge margin! And if you've been alone for a while that is something that takes a lot of getting used to. After 5 minutes, you just draw a blank. This does not mean you do not like, just that you are a little embarrassed at first. Do not worry, embarrassment disappears soon!
5. There is a sudden expansion of your social circle
Suddenly his life is bombarded with new people. You meet all your friends who have not yet had, and sometimes you feel a little at sea. Although it can be a bit overwhelming for you, consider that it is the fulfillment of all his friends and try to impress them too. So take a deep breath and soldier!
6. Let the past stay ...
As there was a reason that you were alone, there is a reason that you are nothing! You have decided to be with someone else, and that means you need to leave your luggage past go. It can be scary at first, but it is also incredibly liberating!
7. Your story with others? Say about it.
Just because you were alone all this time does not mean that you were ever interested or involved other people at all. If you think your relationship is in some serious hand, it is probably the best way to get the conversation of the road. He could finally meet some people from your past, so it is best that he knows all there is to them. Every detail has to be discussed, but a general idea would help.
8. Get Intimate
Connection type is one thing and getting physical with her boyfriend is a whole other ball game. You can be a bundle of nerves, you feel you are doing it for the first time all over again, but it will be wonderful. So take your time, be prepared for it. And it will be perfect. :-)