Are you about to lose your Virginity?
The loss of virginity, highly anticipated and feared at the
same time is very important in the life of the woman now. But among the 15, 17
and 19 years what is the best age for first sexual intercourse?
A few Small tips to find the ideal time
Losing your virginity, did you mean it?
Technically a woman is still a virgin as her hymen (the flexible membrane at
the entrance of the vagina) remains intact. When a sexual relationship holds,
and therefore there is a penetration man's penis inserted into the vagina
breaks the hymen. At that time slight bleeding may occur, is what is called
defilement or loss of virginity.
However, there are many preconceived ideas about that time so it would not hurt
to get a little update: you can not lose your virginity horseback. However,
regular practice of a sport as dancing or riding can soften the hymen and thus
make the first penetration less painful.
The ideal age
A legal level in Spain can keep sex from age 13 which is not to say that if
anyone is still a virgin at 14 is out of the norm. In fact there is no
"normal" age to lose virginity, everything depends on the physical
and psychological maturity and context.
Body and mind point ... too!
The first must go hand disappointed. Must be sufficiently mature sexual level
and in relation to the desires to assume them. With the arrival of adolescence,
the body undergoes a metamorphosis, becomes gradually adult and libido is
awakened. You have discovered how to pleasure yourself alone and are completely
open to it, so you've reached a certain physical maturity, but for now your
relationship to sexuality is lonely and is based on fantasies. Are you ready
psychologically to discover your privacy and share your pleasure with a man?
Sometimes the body grows faster than the head and to go to practice both must
be coordinated.
The best context
If you're already ready, both physically and psychologically, you just have to
find the right person, you really have to like and inspire enough confidence to
feel like making love to her. The context is also important because you must
feel totally comfortable and safe, especially the first time, because if you're
tense, vaginal muscles will contract and penetration is painful. Waiting to
find someone with whom you feel good to take the plunge, though this may seem
frustrating, frustration is part of life and also adds a spicy touch to
sexuality.
No dramatize
Some people wait until they are really in love to lose their virginity and they
are right: it is an important moment in the life of a woman and do not want to
ruin it. This first experience is critical to your future sex life. Take your
time, no rush: in life everything comes at appropriate time.
Others choose an experienced man who like but they are not in love. They want
to get rid of what they consider a burden to advance your sexual life. If you
are not sure you do not want to make love because everyone else does, why not
wait?
In both cases the most important thing is to feel prepared and downplay the
issue: the first is never great, but is the gateway to other occasions much
more pleasant.
Essential precautions
No matter the age, if you lose your virginity you have to go to the
gynecologist to prescribe you adequate contraception. Do not forget to use
condoms: they are the only protection against STDs and other milder infections,
so they are indispensable.