Wednesday, March 18, 2015

Do Women Want Men to Lie?

Perhaps the title may surprise you, but this is true: sometimes women want men to lie to them. Obviously this does not apply tolerance cheating in any situation, but in specific. The same, of course, have been duly noted by the ladies, to prevent the knights take advantage and implement the lie when they want and fit. Want to know what those moments where becoming Pinocchio is allowed? Then read this note.

When do women want to men to lie to them?

When asked about her figure
If a woman asks you if she looks fat, she is never expecting a brutally honest answer like: "the truth is that you are a little fat". But, NO is the answer she would like to hear, especially if you both are going out to a party or moment when you are showing the new dress she bought. The worst thing you can do is break your bubble of joy and confidence with the arrow of sincerity.

Note: only at certain times it may make one sort of constructive criticism or comments like "my husband/boyfriend likes me, but if he is uncomfortable with you, hit the gym with your friends."

When compared
They are together at a party or bar and suddenly enters a sexy and gorgeous all view her. At that time your girlfriend will ask you: "Is she prettier / beautiful than me?” Quickly reply to this before you even blink your eyes and never hesitate to answer that one! The response should be automatic, fast and loving: "No babe, you are the most beautiful / prettiest." This same thing applies if your girlfriend is compared to your ex, your sister or a colleague of yours.

It is true that the question is ridiculous and unhappy, but the girls do it because they want to increase their confidence and self esteem to the appearance of a figure of the same sex that makes them feel inferior.

When she questions you about her clothing or hair
When a woman asks you how is the new haircut / look, exactly similar happens when she asks you the question is she looking fat. The last thing you want is to undermine her self-esteem and what truly looking to confirm that it is as fabulous as it feels. So much she has spent hours dancing, this disheveled, or has been crying, in all cases the only tolerable YES. Even if you want to add extra points can say something like: "Always look nice" or "Everything looks good on you."

The same goes for when a lady asks you whether you like her new haircut or new hair color. Often this is hardly noticeable, but women are very detailed and expect everyone to look for what for them was a big change. So even you know it was made in the hair because they look almost the same, your answer definitely should be: "Yes honey,  it definitely looks great on you." Say it from the bottom of your heart.

On the other hand, if the change was very radical and you think it does not fit well, never confess it because you can unleash a great emotional crisis because there is no way to repair it until it grows back. In both the cases, when she is ready to go to the salon you can suggest what you like most but do not tell her anything that does not please her.

To Consult You On Her Mood
Many women often ask their partners if they notice you are sad, angry or drunk. In all cases it is advisable to respond to No. Why? Well not to make her feel insecure and fearful of going out or interacting with others. If she believes that others may notice what you did not notice will want her to look at the conversation.

In the case of alcohol, she wants you to help maintain your composure. This is because, generally, if she does notice that you are drunk, she tends to feel ridiculous and begins to mourn. To spare you from the scene, just answer NO and try to help yourself to be your best.

To Find Out About Your Outings
After Saturday night with friends she asks: "Did you have fun?. Of course, the answer may be yes, do you have to cheat radically. But it is not recommended that you start telling her about what happened all night, you cannot expect to repeat and that the truth or thought about it when you laughed. Women want to know (or believe) that their guys go better with them than anyone else on the planet.

As you can see, women are complex and although weighted honesty, at times one white lie is not frowned upon.