Habits to maintain or regain the passion without changing partners
If we define technically the chemistry of love, we
are talking, says psychologist of
all hormonal and neurotransmitter
processes that are triggered when two people come into physical contact. "It's something very special and determines the compatibility in many senses (smell, touch, etc.),
even in the reproductive" said the
expert, who also reveals that
chemistry is what makes the pleasure circuits are activated in the brain
and want more and more.
However, the chemical has a hard component analysis,
irrational and sometimes unscientific or with
few rules or final instructions,
as revealed by the Doctor. What we can confirm you the reason is if
that does not happen, as a conscious process, and what it means for your relationship. But no
one will ask if you want to be with your partner or not, "he says.
1. Contact is essential: The desire to 'touch' of 'skin'
and not only sexual
intent. "It's very healthy for among the
cascade of hormones oxytocin
is also called love
hormone, which is absolutely essential for healthy ties are created. And they need the bond
of skin and lots of physical
contact," says the specialist and love psychologist.
2. Complement each other:
For a relationship that you want to be
durable and keep alive the
passion necessary understand what you need to be loved and give you love.
"Living in a way that is pleasing to both,
of course, is obliged to apply the formula
Being mutually couple
is to be meaningful to the other,
complement it.".
3. Perceive that love is reciprocated: The psychologist also explains that to keep love alive the partner should be, above all, reciprocated.
To tell the beloved that he is important to us, simply combines imagination with the wow factor.
4. Showing positive: To maintain a healthy relationship the partner has to essentially decrease negativity. For this it is necessary to avoid blame, defensiveness, contempt, and
stonewalling. The blame has to do
with criticism about the character
and personality of the couple, "Rather than to blame how effective is they need to find solutions,". As for the defensive, it is also a
way to blame the other and
only exacerbates the conflict. Contempt is one
of the most toxic behaviors to
the relationship. The expert says "sarcasm and skepticism are forms of contempt. Just as insult,
ridicule, snorting or hostile humor." Finally,
an elusive person tends to act like he did not care what the other says, as if not to hear, which is
very bad for a healthy relationship.
5. Attract, is seeking: The desire
or feeling desired by your partner is very
healthy and is a good barometer
of the health of the relationship.
"When that chemical disappears soon there will be a fall into relationships that could be more than couple
But we can activate
our physical appeal. We Must be very
careful, know what your partner
likes it or not (and that goes
for both sexes ) or occasionally surprise. We
decide when to be in the heat of
the coals, or when the fire is with a good flame,
"says the expert.
6. Revive and maintain the passion: "The passion disappears because they stop doing the things that nourish and
not vice versa. If you want to
feel passion, you have to do
what produces passion. If you stop doing the
things of love, stop feeling love
in the same way that if you stop smiling, you stop feeling happy."