Getting intimate for the first time with your boyfriend?
Fear of disclosure of intimacy, fear of pain or just you do
not know how. Making love for the first time can be a source of anguish. See
our tips for a fresh start.
At what age?
The difference in age of the first intercourse between boys and girls has
declined. However, contrary to popular belief, young people are not ever
earlier. In Spain, the average is between 17 and 18 years. Without looking at
the statistics, it is essential not to rush and wait for the right time. For
your first time going well, it is imperative that you want to. Do not push;
stress will not help you relax. Your muscles will contract and penetration will
be difficult.
How to act?
There is sex upon penetration. The erect penis is nested in the lubricated
vagina and made movements back and forth to achieve ejaculation. Technical
seems but do not worry, everything is very natural!
What are the preliminary?
Above all, do not skip the preliminary stage by any chance. The strokes will definitely
make you discover the sensuality of the other body and increase the complicity
between the two. Immerse the heart of the sensations still unknown to determine
what gives you pleasure. The petting, soft kisses and erotic massages promote
sexual arousal that you need to pass the act. The male is in erection and
lubricates your vagina naturally. Insufficient lubrication causes painful
penetration. In that case, do not hesitate to humidify your vagina with the
help of saliva or lubricator.
What position?
Let the stunts for later! Do not hesitate to tell your partner that reduces the
rate if you feel pain. Take your time. For the first time, the missionary (you
lying on the back, he is above) is a good choice. In this position, the
penetration is naturally because his penis is in the direction of your vagina.
The second option is you straddling him. This way you can guide your sex as you
want in your vagina and moving can control.
What is the hymen?
Losing your virginity involves the breaking of the hymen, a membrane that
partially covers the vulvar orifice of the vagina. You can enter a finger or
use tampons before the first relationship, the hymen has a slight opening.
During intercourse, the hymen is torn and can cause a little bleeding or pain.
It is also possible to bleed slightly second time. The practice of a sport
regularly, mainly dance or riding yield the hymen. In these cases, the first
penetration is performed more smoothly.
Disappointed with your first time?
It is rare that reaches the seventh heaven during your first relationship. Many
factors come into play: fear of doing wrong, stress, etc. Sex is like all you
have to practice to be good. As the vagina is not an area which multiple sensors
pleasure, takes time. You will realize that it just gets better and that
penetration is not the only source of pleasure.
Precautions
Not because it is your first time you can forget to protect yourself. Always
with a condom to prevent any STD. Do not hesitate to talk to your partner. You
can also think of contraception. Grab appointment with your Doctor who, after a
complete check, you know will prescribe the pill that suits you.