Secrets to a dream
marriage
Every marriage has the live happily ever after tag. While
this is not entirely possible, because even the most harmonious couple in the
world have fights and problems, there are several tricks that bring science to
get the relationship to be as perfect as possible and stay strong against the
passing years. Want to know what?
Secrets to a Happy
Marriage
According to me, there are five ways to make your marriage pleasant and
fruitful.
1. Trust Your Instincts
According to doctors it is very important to pay attention to personal instinct
or what is called "hunch" because, generally, they are right. This
means that if deep down you feel that the person you are is not ideal to get
married, then you better let him go. There are more chances that if you do the
opposite of what your instinct tells you; you might fail rather than succeed.
2. The couple who met
at school, college or work
According to a survey by physicians experienced in relationships, those marriages
formed by people who met at school, college or work are less likely to divorce
than those in which their spouses met in other circumstances.
To be more specific, research found that couples who met at school has 41% less
likely to break. While those who were for the first time in a bar has about 24%
more likely to divorce.
3. Commit to Someone Positive
There are many qualities that are important when it comes to dating, but
perhaps the more relevant is the positivity. Note that living with someone
positive, and let you be your own, helps carry out a more harmonious and full
of good experiences relationship. This was revealed by a study published in the
Journal of Marriage and Family, which also notes that spending quality time is
the key to a lasting marriage.
On the other hand, a positive person does not sabotage marriage, give inputs on
things that are wrong or might fail sooner or later. On the contrary, always
see the best of the relationship and bring to the fore, while the couple
struggles to bring forward, and tries to overcome the bad times and improvise.
4. Distribute Tasks
A study in a famous journal argues that couples household tasks are distributed
along better and live more harmoniously. This is to divide the chores which reduces
stress in women, usually in addition to attending the house (and children if
any) works. Therefore, marriages that are responsible together their "love
nest" are less likely to divorce.
5. Going to the Movies
Something as simple as going to the movies can save your marriage, especially
if you choose between movies like drama or romance. Why? Because then you both
can discuss the plot compared to your life, attitudes and problems of the
characters can treat personal issues that often couples do not know how to
address. They can also anticipate future problems as through dialogue on the
life of another (the characters), the spouses are more aware and delve into how
to feel and see the world in his / her partner.
A good movie that you can share with your partner is "Fireproof", an
American film released in 2008 which was a box office success: it grossed over
$ 12 million during the first two weeks of its release. It tells the story of
two young (Caleb and Catherine) who have married and daily routines have lost
the magic of your love; that's when the father of Caleb, who gives his son a
book entitled "The Challenge of Love: 40 days" appears on the scene.
This document has hidden rules to follow for 40 days in order to salvage his
marriage.
This is an interesting story to discuss and, if you want even further out
reflection, you can download the book "The Challenge of Love: 40
days" on the Internet and get to test yourself and your partner. You'll
see how the relationship goes back more harmonious day.
Beyond these five tips, the real secret to a marriage work is in communication.
It may sound repetitive, but it never hurts to remember that it is essential to
know express what you like and dislike, listening to the feelings of others and
understanding, learning to argue one’s position but be open to other and
talking without shouting. Remember: the soft words and delicate gestures get
much more than the shouts, threats and tears.
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