For whatever reason,
there are men who are attracted to older women. If
you are someone who would like to meet a woman 10,
15 or 20 more years, or if you already have a relationship with more to you lady, know that this
relationship is not as easy as it
sounds, since they often have
several responsibilities that you
as a young man even know about. In our blog
we give you five recommendations
for you to succeed in a
relationship with a 10 or 20
years older than you girl.
5 Tips for Success
with Older Women
1. Do not Try to Pretend Something you're not
Usually, older women have more experience, so if you want to have a successful relationship, then you must show you as you are. Probably she has had several relationships and knows almost all the tricks and lies of men. Be clear and precise with it and do not try to impress her, as this almost never works with older women.
2. They are More Independent
A woman of 40 or 50 years is someone independent, with a steady job and probably children. They have a life that can hardly be changed or adjust to you. It is you who should be integrated into your life. Do not expect her to ask permission to do this or that at the beginning of the relationship, and that being accustomed to being alone, it probably will not.
3. Be nice to Her Kids (if she has)
For her, children are the most important thing, so I know that she will always give priority to their children than you, at least in the beginning of the relationship. If you want to conquer the woman and the relationship progresses, you must learn to get along with their children. Performs activities with them, spend time with them and the woman who attracts you and try to win her affection.
4. Be Sensitive
All women are more fragile and sensitive than men, even to those who do not appear. For more than older women often are independent, appear too serious and do not need anyone, remain sensitive people who like men tender, attentive, knights and who care about them. She may have had serious relationships before and probably some of them have not done well. Asking about her past and learn about what topics you can talk and which is better to stay out.
5. Older Women are a Challenge
Dating a woman's age is not as easy as many people imagine. Of course there are many different types of women, but in general if she is 10 or 20 years older than you; you must learn several things to make the relationship work. It is also important to know and accept that it is very possible it she is the one who takes the lead in the relationship.