Prince Charming and Cinderellas

As children, we all have been building in our minds a picture of the person with whom we would relate; formed on the basis of narratives, love movies, social gatherings, the family model, in addition to the stereotype, plus the excessive stimulation of the imagination itself; all this will result in an image of the ideal person, out of the blue one day he will come and ring our doorbell and tell us that he loves us so deep in his heart. Besides being beautiful, elegant, friendly, sympathetic , intelligent and with a lot of money.

Those who carry a little more life traveled know that these characters do not exist in fiction or in real life. However, some people continue to busily bent on finding these stereotypes to try a relationship, which some refer to ideal love, given the insistence with which persist in your search.

This is caused by a kind of mental intoxication, where we feed the imagination, we generate illusions that result in unrealistic and fanciful characters, we suppose someday it will come to real life and come to us.

With this unreal and fantasy parameter compared to all the people with whom we interact, where this brings us a permanent dissatisfaction and constant disappointment, because no result we like even close in comparison to the illusion created.

What is important in this regard is aware of the situation created by us, not the other person disenchanted when we do not want to see the attributes that our fiction attributed to him and actually our Prince blue or Cinderella never had.

In love is not worth looking at the outside features of a person, but what is built invisibly from the heart of each toward the other person. Each is special and unique, for whom so you do feel that you open your heart, you give the best of them and promote the best of your being, because he feels true love.