If you are a member of a site for online dating surely
you've wondered why many private messages you send them to others who have no
answers. In this article I would like to give you some tips to make your posts
to their interests and desire to contact you, instead of generating
frustration, mistrust or rejection. These recommendations are part of a
research we have done on free sites for dating.
Read His /Her full
profile
As simple as it may seem more than 50% of the male members
on the contact page, do not usually read the complete profile of the woman they
want to contact. In fact you should invest some time to read the profiles of
all the members that you want to contact. If you're a man you might not bother
about the women that will send "generic" messages, but believe me
with women it is totally different. Take the time to read his/her full profile
and think something unique which you can write to the other person.
Do not write too long
Try to write something short and fun. Nobody wants to read
too much information in the first message. No need to write your whole life or
too much detail, it's just a message to introduce ourselves and see if the other
person is interested in us. Nor overdo it and send something like "Hi, how
are you?” I personally recommend writing between 3-5 lines.
Check the Spelling &
Grammar
A message with good grammar and spelling usually has a much
greater impact than the one that does not have acceptance. If you have doubts
about writing your message, you can review it with the internet or any writing
program.
Do Not Be Too Romantic
Some women receive dozens of daily messages and believe it
or not, most begin with "Hello, you're so beautiful ...",
"You're the most beautiful woman ...” While women like compliments, it is
also tiring to read again and again the same. The best way to write a first
message is a friendly, simple and in a friendly tone.
Avoid Personal Data
Do not rush to send your email, facebook, skype or telephone
number. The other person does not even know you so much and it usually
generates distrust. When you meet someone in a disco, bar or restaurant, do not
give your email or phone number as soon as you present. So why do so via
internet?
Now that you know how you can write a good personal message
to make a positive impact on someone else, why not try these techniques on any
of the free online dating sites. Please comment on your experience.
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