In this world, we always have people who fail to find a
partner. Formerly used these singles personal ads to meet your soul mate and
for some years the most used are the pages on the Internet dating. However, the
number of single people will still keep on rising, which is why it has now
become very popular the term "love coaching," which would be a loving
counselor who is responsible for helping those single people to find love.
This business was started 4 or 5 years in the United States
and only this year has taken a great importance in Spain and Latin America.
What is Love Coaching?
A love loving coacher or counselor is a professional
consultant for subjects in love. Some of these counselors are psychologists or
have some training in NLP (that is a model of interpersonal communication that
is primarily concerned with the relationship between successful behaviors and
subjective experiences). Many of these experts are former marriage counselors.
Who Is It For?
The love coaching can be useful for both singles that are in
search of a soulmate, couples going through some sort of crisis and those who need
reassurance. The problems are many men and single women when dating, often lack
commitment or personality problems that lead them to make the same mistakes
again and again. This is where one of these professionals can be of great help.
Of course we must not forget that they may also be useful for those who just
fall in love and want to be sure that they have made a good choice.
The Goal of Counseling
A love counselor is not a dating agency. That is, they do
not have catalogs full of potential partners to introduce or recommend. As any
counselor, will accompany you and be with you until you can fulfill a specific
purpose. It is a custom method that can be adapted to each individual and aims
to decipher customer behavior and help with their love problems. They are a
sentimental advisor, distinguishing person who knows those signs that can lead
to a breakdown of those who promise good prospects. In a standard program it typically
includes:
Improve knowledge
of self, desires and needs.
Identify negative
behaviors when a couple looking for.
Determine bad
habits to change when an appointment.
Recognize the qualities
and value them.
Learn to have
perspective.
Difference Between a Counselor
and a Psychologist
A love counselor has a pragmatic and concrete approach to
things. Does not work on locks themselves, but indicates hints and tips,
proposes to overcome: what right attitude to have a meeting would be possible?
How to improve a relationship or make it last longer? By contrast, a
psychologist tries to understand the causes of behavior (in this case, the
sentimental failure), for which usually question the patient about his past and
tries while doing aware, but never or very rarely will give advice.