The sole purpose of enrolling
on the internet dating sites
is to know men and women to form a couple. This
type of websites facilitates
contacts with other singles in
your city and helps break the ice
and start conversations online. But if you really want to
know the other person then you must
meet personally and
it is essential that
you get your personal information and invite her out.
The best way to propose a first date with a
girl you met on the internet is
through a phone conversation.
When should you ask for the
phone number?
One important thing you must learn is that it is not good to rush things on internet dating sites because women on these sites are often very suspicious. Never ask her phone number in the first message you send her or first chat, having as this will seem like you are a needy and the chances of getting it are few.
If the woman has contacted you, then you can ask the phone number in the second message you send her. If it is you who initiated the contact, then wait until the third personal message to ask. Something similar happens with the chat. Wait until the second or third time you're chatting to ask and try to do the best point in the conversation and never at the beginning.
Asking the Phone?
Requesting for her number also depends on whoever was initiated the contact. If it was her, then you can be direct and just say "Hey give me your phone, I would like to hear your voice" or "give me your phone number? Is that you want to hear ".
If it was you who initiated the contact with the woman, there are several alternatives to ask and depend heavily as far as she is interested in you. You can be direct, cautious, funny, indirect, sarcastic, etc. To choose the correct phrase first be sure to read the messages exchanged well and try to understand a little more about the situation. If you can tell she has great interest in you then you can ask directly ask her otherwise use any of the other techniques I discuss above.
I already asked her number and sent her a message, now what?
The most important thing you can do after sending a message to a woman you met on a dating internet site, what do to next is expected. Maybe she can take one or two days to respond to your message so just wait and do not send a message again. It may be that she never may answer you. That means she is not interested so you better continue searching elsewhere.
On the other hand if she responds but does not show interest, you can also take that as a "no". Things like "too early", "we do not know enough", "why not send me yours" are clear signs that are not really interested in you and probably only make you waste time. It is best to continue your search for the better half in dating sites where you are registered.